Reclaim Your A-Game:
Overcome Critical Leadership Injuries
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Critical Leadership Injury (CLI):
noun
Lasting negative effect of interaction with a leader or authority (or in one’s role as such)
Signs & Symptons of
Critical Leadership Injuries (CLI)
Feeling
✓ Undervalued
✓ Devalued
Feeling
✓ Misunderstood
✓ Mistrustful
Feeling
✓ Disillusioned
✓ Disengaged
Lack of
✓ Motivation
✓ Trust
✓ Respect
Difficulty
✓ Making decisions
✓ Taking risks
✓ Taking direction
Avoiding
✓ Confrontation
✓ Criticism
✓ Rejection
Strong Need For
✓ Self-determination
✓ Recognition
Strong Need For
✓ Affirmation
✓ Validation
Strong Need For
✓ Others to agree
✓ Pleasing others
Other Signs & Symptoms
✓ Second-guessing
✓ “Never good enough”
✓ Driven to prove oneself
Other Signs & Symptoms
✓ Power plays
✓ Knee-jerk reactions
✓ Self-perception skewed
Other Signs & Symptoms
✓ Not promoted
✓ Burnout
✓ Job-hopping
Even if you’ve suffered a setback from poor leadership, you can:
CONFIDENCE
TRUST
PASSION
Are you suffering from a Critical Leadership Injury (CLI)?
Maybe it was something that happened. Your boss ripped you a new one in front of the whole team. You got thrown under the bus and took the heat for something that wasn’t your fault. Or you’ve been micromanaged into the ground.
Or maybe it was something that didn’t happen. You got passed over for a promotion (and raise) that should have been yours. You got thrown to the wolves without the support or resources you needed to get the job done. Or you’ve been just a cog in the wheel where nobody really cared or recognized your contribution.
Even the best players can be discouraged, disheartened, and disillusioned when injustices like these occur.
We tend to avoid certain situations–or adapt in ways that are actually hurting us and our chances of advancement.
You might even consider quiet quitting or joining the Great Resignation.
But will you really be happier if you just mail it in or take your toys and go home?
That’s not going to solve the underlying problem…and could open you up to a whole set of new ones.
If you don’t deal with this now, it could haunt you for years to come–even if you find a new job or decide to do your own thing.
- Safety & Security
- Trust in Yourself & Others
- Power & Control
- Confidence & Self-Esteem
- Connection with Others
- Body and physiological response to stress
- Emotional & psychological well-being
- Thoughts, beliefs, & attitudes
- Choices, decision-making, & behavior
- Focus on WHO before DO to stay anchored in identity apart from performance
- Turn ME to WE to be a leader who cares about and brings out the best in others
- Move from CONTROL to INFLUENCE to be an empowering leader others want to follow
Director of Leadership Excellence
The Exponential Mindset Group
After witnessing transformation for veterans and others seeking treatment for PTSD, I became curious about applying the same concepts that helped them to those who were being hindered by bad experiences with leaders. Not just bosses but also other authority figures: parents, teachers, coaches, and pastors. Combining expertise in trauma recovery with wisdom on parenting styles, attachment, and the science of human relationships, I developed the Critical Leadership Injury Protocol (CLIP) to alleviate the pain of these experiences, heal the soul, and remove the barriers that hold people back from living their best lives.
Reclaim Your A-Game:
Overcome Critical Leadership Injuries
- Understand types & causes of leadership injuries
- Identify leadership injuries in yourself or others
- Assess the impact of Critical Leadership Injuries (CLI) on your work and sense of worth
- Receive validation of your experience that transforms how you feel about it
- Release the negativity that has been stored up and holding you back
- Ensure powerful decisions are working for you, not against you
- Bolster yourself against future leadership injuries
- Protect others under your leadership from potential CLIs